13- A letter to someone who has hurt you recently

Dear person who has hurt me recently,

I never appreciated him to begin with, i never thought he was the right person for you.. I always thought you deserved so much better, you deserved the world! After hurting you, not once but twice in a row.. i thought you were done, everyone was here for you, we were at your side, whenever you called.. whenever you were sad, whenever you wanted to talk..

We expressed how we felt and we thought you were taking it in, listening and understanding that he was not right for you, especially after the way he treated you. Little did we know, that deep down you had every intention of taking him back whenever he decided he wanted you back.

What hurts is that you disregarded everything we said, told him what was said about him, asked for our support after all the shit things he did and asking us to support such a shit person overall.. what do you expect us to do!? How can you expect us to just let go of all the negativity building up. The only reason we never mentioned our dislike for him in the first place was because we thought he made you happy - but clearly, he is selfish and only wants you when its convenient for him and does not treat you the way you deserve to be treated!!

He is a jackass.. full stop! I know it means throwing away years spent with him but seriously, how can you ever trust him again - how do you know that he won't do it again, you said you needed to experience it for yourself but he has done it twice already! when will enough be enough!?

I almost wish that you would read this.. just so you know that your actions are affecting everyone else around you. Cos when your hurting you come to us, but when your not.. its just you two again. If this happens again i don't know whether i will bother holding you while you cry cos i know the moment he wants you back you won't hesitate - it's just wasting all our energy on a lost cause.

Sounds harsh but.. i really don't want to see you hurt again and i know he will do it again whether it be soon or a later on down the track.

I know its hard to let go of someone you've become so involved with after all these years and after all the years of planning your futures but he isn't right for you. How can someone be the one for you when your families and friends disapprove and severely dislike him??

You need to wake up, you are so blind and brainwashed by his antics..
You need to realize that what you have is not love.. he does not love you. Clearly, he does not love you as much as you love him. When you love someone you don't treat them this way, you do everything in your power to ensure that they never ever have to hurt you like that. Remember that he has done this purposely.. three times now.

Sigh i just feel like i'm talking to a brick wall.. cos no matter what any of us say you will return to him. Feels like we are hopeless and all we can do is stand by and watch.